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Elvis
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(12-25-2017, 07:40 PM)Claraviolet Wrote: I would rather die than marry someone. Believe me you ate lucky. Not me

Why? Don't you love him? I think you're just overwhelmed with joy and that's why you say these things.

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KuranKaname
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(12-25-2017, 08:24 PM)Elvis Wrote: Why? Don't you love him? I think you're just overwhelmed with joy and that's why you say these things.

You are not helping. Do you really think someone would kill themselves if they love the other partner?

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Elvis
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(12-25-2017, 08:39 PM)KuranKaname Wrote: You are not helping. Do you really think someone would kill themselves if they love the other partner?
Well, she said that she loves her mom, but she also wants to kill herself, so who knows?  Shrug

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BurnsyCEO
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(12-25-2017, 07:40 PM)Claraviolet Wrote: [Only registered and activated users can see links Click here to register]

Your solution. The law protects you.

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Claraviolet
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(12-25-2017, 10:59 PM)BurnsyCEO Wrote: [Only registered and activated users can see links Click here to register]

Your solution. The law protects you.

I don't want my family to become a laughing stock. So thats not a solution for me

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Elvis
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(12-25-2017, 11:09 PM)Claraviolet Wrote: I don't want my family to become a laughing stock. So thats not a solution for me

I think you're trolling. You can't possibly choose death just to prevent people from gossiping about your family. That's irrational.

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MadaraUchiha
Akatsuki

(12-25-2017, 11:09 PM)Claraviolet Wrote: I don't want my family to become a laughing stock. So thats not a solution for me


If worst comes to worst, that is your solution, not taking your life. Please understand that.

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Claraviolet
Akatsuki

(12-26-2017, 12:21 AM)Elvis Wrote: I think you're trolling. You can't possibly choose death just to prevent people from gossiping about your family. That's irrational.

Only Indians could truly understand this stuff elvis.
Over here, traditional families give high importance about status and such.

(12-26-2017, 12:58 AM)MadaraUchiha Wrote: If worst comes to worst, that is your solution, not taking your life. Please understand that.
Can't....just cant Sad

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Kaynil
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I was more thinking in online lines than just local ones. There are skype suicide prevention by volunteers and no profit orgorganisation ñ. If you search around maybe you can find a group like that in your first language by people who understand your culture because they are part of it.

 I am happy you are taking counseling, keep at them no matter how your brain resist the idea. They should teach you some coping techniques and guidance.

Sorry that the engagement is going on and that your family is coercing you by threatening to kill themselves, that's really a hard load. I hope you do manage to negotiate with them some sort of alternative that works better for both sides. Maybe you could try to request to postpone it so you can make more time to pick up yourself and convince them off. 

If the marriage is for their piece of mind on your well being, maybe you can find a way in that time to reassure them you will be fine single.

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Claraviolet
Akatsuki

(12-26-2017, 01:58 PM)Kaynil Wrote: I was more thinking in online lines than just local ones. There are skype suicide prevention by volunteers and no profit orgorganisation ñ. If you search around maybe you can find a group like that in your first language by people who understand your culture because they are part of it.

 I am happy you are taking counseling, keep at them no matter how your brain resist the idea. They should teach you some coping techniques and guidance.

Sorry that the engagement is going on and that your family is coercing you by threatening to kill themselves, that's really a hard load. I hope you do manage to negotiate with them some sort of alternative that works better for both sides. Maybe you could try to request to postpone it so you can make more time to pick up yourself and convince them off. 

If the marriage is for their piece of mind on your well being, maybe you can find a way in that time to reassure them you will be fine single.
Well...I have tried everything that I know. I do hope that they would come to understand me sometime.
I can't believe my mom said she would be ashamed of me if I don't marry... ;_;
Even so...I can't bring myself to do that

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